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Dear People,

Our souls long to fulfill our destinies - finding the right people, right time and right places for us. We are always supported and guided towards best outcomes for us. It's though sometimes, when what we want doesn't seem to appear in the time line we'd like or when we become fearful as we feel our destinies are too difficult. 

That's why today I'm writing affirmations on embracing your destiny. It's so important to be in tune with our soul's journey, to really receive the blessings available to you from God/The Universe/Higher Power and to be able to live your best life.

I write my affirmations in different levels so you can see what resonates with you and what you want to work on. You might start with a lower level that resonates and then move your way up.
Pick and choose what works for you and affirm away (I recommend three times a day if you can manage it). 
 
I face my destiny without fear
I face my destiny without worries
I face my destiny without anger
I face my destiny without impatience
 
I face my destiny with love
I face my destiny with confidence
I face my destiny with support
I face my destiny with trust
I wholeheartedly face my destiny
 
I am willing to embrace my destiny
I am able to embrace my destiny
I accept my destiny
I accept my destiny wholeheartedly
I accept my destiny completely

I receive the joy of my destiny
I receive the growth of my destiny
I receive the fulfillment of my destiny
I receive the grace of my destiny
I receive the ease of my destiny
I receive the blessings of my destiny
 
I listen for guidance towards the path of my destiny
I watch for guidance towards the path of my destiny
I accept the support towards the path of my destiny
I act upon guidance towards the path of my destiny 
I relax into the flow towards the path of my destiny
  
Have an affirmation you want to share? Don't hesitate to post it in a comment on the blog or on the Facebook Fan Page or watch the past Instagram Live about affirmations. You can also share your affirmation stories in the practice or by e-mail.

 

 

Dear people,

There are many different cycles in our lives: the wake/sleep cycle of our bodies, a cycle of days, months or seasons (sun cycles), cycles of the moon, cycles in life (childhood, adult, elderly) and you can do a lot of healing work by respecting and working with the flow of these cycles. So today I'm writing about Cycle Work.

Important things first: Respect your Cycle 

A lot of times people have trouble to respect where they are in their cycle. They are tired, so should move to a sleep or rest cycle, but instead they stay awake working late or choose to zone out behind the TV. It's a bad time for doing new things, but they still push forward with a project, getting overwhelmed with everything going on and the new things on top of the already heavy load.

Many people feel like they can bend life towards their needs, but that always causes much more trouble than it's worth. Going with the flow means a lot less effort, time and energy than going against it. Even so it's of course disappointing when your schedule you designed doesn't seem to work so you have to reschedule your plans. Allow yourself to feel those feelings and only then, change your schedule around to respect where you are in your cycle.

Second Step: Learn your personal Cycle

Some cycles make a lot of sense: sleep when it's dark, wake when it's light. But other cycles are very personal: you might feel optimal mental energy in the morning or in the evening. You might concentrate for 30 minutes or maybe for 60 or any time in between. You love doing 20 things at once or you just need to focus on one thing only to shine. 

Finding out what your optimal times are, what work load works best for you or when you feel most at ease tackling something is extremely worthwhile. Do you prefer to tackle the worst task first or would you like to do some easy things and then move forward? 

Try to experiment a bit with how you do things and when you do things to get to know yourself and your personal cycles. I always notice when I'm feeling better, as my natural wake up is at 6am and when I'm feeling under the weather and a 20 minute bicycle ride turns into 30-35. I noticed when I overworked myself, as I was often exhausted on Tuesdays, because I took on too much work on Monday's. Keep a journal so you can see patterns emerge for yourself or jot down some quick thoughts on your calendar or in your phone.

Third Step: Connect to the Universal Energy

All seasons and times have their own energy which I've written about before. Everybody feels the vibe to clean out things in Spring or relax more so they can recharge in the Summer. You can also tune into the energy of a specific month, so that's why the Month Energy Readings are also available on my YouTube Channel.

By connecting to the Universal Energy, you can move with the available flow of energy and create an easier time. When we do that, you might notice other people being more cooperative or more attracted to your offerings or services, you might notice how certain projects or tasks go faster and easier or even just feel more energetic at the end of the day. 

Some cycles are all about doing, but others are about resting, brainstorming, transition, simmering or even waiting. Finding out what's going on is a wonderful way to work with the Universe/Higher Power/God. 

Fourth Step: Work with the Cycle

Now that you have a clearer view of your own cycle and how it works for you, seen what Universal Energy is available and respect where you are at in your cycles. It's time to work with it. Just like you wouldn't do gardening work when it's raining, you shouldn't do certain things if you are too tired mentally or emotionally. 

I prefer keeping a master list of things I want to accomplish and then keep checking in what works for me. I tend to split the list by responsibilities (home, business, personal, garden, social), but you can also split it by difficulty or by type of energy needed (physical, emotional, mental or spiritual). I draw a weekly card to remind me of what important energy is there for me, personally, and what to be mindful of.

Exercise to work with the Cycle

  • Take around 5-10 minutes to write down all things you want to do, that are still on your plate, that you have been avoiding or that you find important. Just get it all out, so you know what should be happening in your life. 
  • Close your eyes and ask what part of the cycle your body is in. Is it well rested, does it need more food or drink or relaxation. Keep that in mind before moving forward. Connecting regularly with your body is great way to keep your energy high
  • Close your eyes and ask what part of the cycle your heart is in. Do you need to clear out some old stuff, cheer yourself up, cheer yourself on or is your heart happy and fulfilled.
  • Close your eyes and ask what the state of your head is. Are you ready to brainstorm, concentrate or work? Is there something eating your energy or you need to take it easy for a bit?
  • Close your eyes and ask for general guidance on your cycle and what you should be doing.
  • Now you have a clear view on what is going on and needed, so get to work!

Do you want to share some of your Cycle work? Or do you want to be more mindful of your own personal cycles, so you can live happier and work effective? You can email me, post a comment on the blog or send me a message on the Facebook Fan Page or on Instagram.

 



Dear People,

A lot of people ask me about who is helping them in this life. It could be a Guide, Totem Animal, Guardian Angel or even a passed loved one. Often this is because they want to create a stronger connection and be able to work with them easily. So they ask who it is or for specific names. A few years ago I've written about my own Guides, but today I'm writing about answering questions about other people's Guides. 

 

What type of helpers do you recognize?

 

There are many different entities, spiritual helpers or spiritual energy that people can work with. A small summary here might help you realize that you can try connecting to much more then you ever thought.

 

  • Guides - usually souls that are willing to help others, could be a deceased loved one
  • (Guardian) Angels - Angelic energy that can help with healing, guidance or protection
  • Animal Totems - Energy and lessons from Animal Guides
  • Faeries - Energy and lessons from Fae/Earth Guides
  • Ancestors - Guidance from people in your own family tree 

 

You can find more information in my other blogpost: Thoughts on Healing - Available Energy/Guidance

 

Can you give me the names of the Guides/Energy I'm working with?

 

I'm always very careful with giving out names. Not because I feel that people don't deserve it or that it's inherently wrong. However, I believe that when we are forging a connection, that finding out or receiving the name, helps that connection immensely. It's a special moment and it also helps us reconnect. 

 

I have to admit I always name a lot of things in my life and I've heard that this is done a lot in Shamanic traditions. I haven't studied with a Shaman, but I have noticed a lot of past life flashbacks of Shamanic lives. A naming still feels like a claiming to me, so naming things for others doesn't sit that well with me.

 

I still sometimes do it, when somebody really want to know a name to get a better connection or wants a confirmation of the name they themselves have heard. So you can always feel free to ask this question.


Different ways connect to your guides

 

There are many different ways to connect to Guiding energy. You can do a (guided) meditation, take a moment of silence, do automatic writing, dream work or even ask for a sign. I've had people repeatedly find objects to signify it was Guide message or even get a name. 

 

It's alright to try out a few different things to see what works for you. I did mostly dream work to connect with my Guides and even when I didn't specify a question, I would often dream of my Guides. For Totem Work I'd prefer meditative trance, sometimes with my own drum and for Angelic work I tend to meditate.

 

There is no right or wrong way to connect - just play around and see what comes easiest to you. Once you have a name however, it can be very helpful to just call on that name, a few times, until you start feeling the connection.


Have a question you want to ask me for the blog? Don't hesitate to ask me in the practice or e-mail me.

 

 

Dear people,

 

Sometimes making a change in your life can really feel tiresome and slow. You might feel like you don't have what it takes, sabotage yourself in other ways or just notice that everything feels like a slog. So today I talk about a wonderful antidote: the Celestial speed up. You can also watch the Joy of Celestial Speed up Video.


What is a Celestial Speed up

 

A Celestial Speed up is the idea that a Higher Power is able to smooth your path and help you through any type of problem or situation and will work with you to progress faster or solve a situation quickly. It doesn't matter what is going on, you can use the Celestial Speed up if you put your trust in it and are willing to surrender to a higher Power.

When should I use a Celestial Speed up?

 

If you notice that things are going much slower then they should or if you ready for a leap of faith, you can just ask. Nothing more is required to start a Celestial Speed up, the rest will all be done through you and with you. You can use a speed up at any time, but if you ask for one, but mindful that you do all the parts required to keep it going until you get the results you asked for.

 

Using a Celestial Speed up most likely means that you might be called to clear out old blockages, release or move forward. It's not only the fun and joy of quicker results, but also the understanding on what is needed to actually speed up and stay at that higher level of progress.

 

How do I use a Celestial Speed up?

 

Just ask! You can ask your idea of higher power, be it God, Heaven, the Universe, your Higher Mind to help you speed up your process. You can also ask guides or Angels to support your path if that fits you better. 

 

Then, make sure you have the time and energy to deal with what the Celestial Speed up brings. For example: if you asked for more clients or progress in your business, make sure you can accommodate the calls/emails/tasks that it will bring. If you asked to speed up finding a romantic partner, make sure you can accommodate dates, calls or chats.

 

Besides being able to accommodate the results, also make sure you have the time and energy to deal with any blockages being brought up. If you want faster results, you also need to deal what was keeping you from those results in the first place. That means you might get more guidance in the form of dreams, inspiration, intuitive thoughts etc. all to show you where you need healing or what you can do to move forward. It's important that you act on that guidance as soon as possible.

 

You might also suddenly meet a lot of people who can help you on your path. These meetings are there for a reason, so pay attention and work with those people who you just know can help you move forward greatly. Don't hesitate to ask for what you want or need. You are being supported here, so take that support and run with it.

 

If you stay connected to your goal and the Celestial Speed up, you will notice improved results almost immediately. Don't forget to be grateful and thank your Higher Power, as reaffirming the energy is also a great way to keep the flow going.

Problems with Celestial Speed up 

 

Staying in the Celestial Speed up requires honesty with yourself, healing, effort, time and energy. However, you asked for the Speed up for a reason, so it should be worth it to you. Still, sometimes we can feel like it's just too much and put on the breaks.  

 

We get scared, we might feel we don't deserve to achieve our goal so easily ("we need to work for it") or any other type of self sabotaging thought patterns or behavior. If you notice yourself falling into that trap, be sure to ask to help lift you back in the Celestial Speed up. Focus on why you asked for it and get back to it. 

 

Want help with a Speed up? You can email me, post a comment on the blog or send me a message on the Facebook Fan Page or on Instagram. I also love to hear your Celestial Speed up stories if you have given this technique a try!

 


Dear People,

We all long for Harmony in our lives. Harmony is the deep knowledge that everything has it's time and place, that everybody is working together or that there is room for different opinions and that deeper sense of joy. It's often not easy to find Harmony in our lives, in groups or even in our families.


If you want to manifest more Harmony, you can do so by listening and meditating along with me in the Harmony Meditation Manifestation or do these lovely affirmations.


I write my affirmations in different levels so you can see what resonates with you and what you want to work on. You might start with a lower level that resonates and then move your way up.
Pick and choose what works for you and affirm away (I recommend three times a day if you can manage it).
 
I open myself to the energy of Harmony
I accept the energy of Harmony 
I embrace the energy of Harmony
I am in Harmony
 
I feel harmony in my body
I feel harmony in my mind
I feel harmony in spirit
I feel harmony in my heart
I am wholly in harmony with myself

My home is harmonious
Everybody in my home has the space for their needs
Everybody in my home has the space for their wants
Everybody in my home has the space for their opinions 
Everybody in my home is valued
Everybody in my home is treated with respect
Everybody in my home is loved
Everybody in my home has the space to be themselves
 
My work is harmonious
All of us have the space to do our work
All of us have the time to do our work 
All our opinions matter
All of us are treated with respect
All of us are valued
All of us are in harmony with each other
 
My family is harmonious
We all have space for our opinions
We all have space for our needs
We all have space for our wants
We are all valued
We are all treated with respect
We are all accepted
We are all loved
We all have the space to be ourselves
We are all connected in harmony
 
You can do the same affirmation set for any group, hobby club or friends.
 
Have an affirmation you want to share? Don't hesitate to post it in a comment on the blog or on the Facebook Fan Page or watch the past Instagram Live about affirmations. You can also share your affirmation stories in the practice or by e-mail.

 

 

Dear people,

Moon Energy is lovely and working with the Moon Phases can help you heal or manifest quicker. Today I'm writing some short thoughts on each of the phases and Moon Energy in general. If you love this topic, leave me a comment, so I can take some time to write more about it soon. You can see how happy Moon Energy makes me in the new Joy with Moon Phases Video which will be online this Friday.

 

Moon Energy in general

The Moon and it's energy has fascinated humans for centuries. Many cultures have had Moon Goddesses and discovered the influence of the moon on the tides of our beautiful oceans. Personally, for me, Moon Energy is silvery, quick to changes, very emotional, deep and mysterious. 

 

I prefer to use Moon Energy on topics of intuition, feminine energy or feminine health concerns, transformation and change and emotions. However, you can use Moon Energy for all topics that suit you as long as you are in tune with what is going on.


Waxing/Waning

The Moon waxes and wanes according to it's cycle and keeping that in mind will help with what you are doing. If the Moon is waxing or growing, it can help you with what you want to gain or manifest in your life. The growth of the Moon can help improve the growth of your project or your health. If you want to grow more hair, have more energy or gain more wealth, the waxing moon will help you out.


If the Moon is waning, or reducing, it helps towards whatever you want to reduce in your life. It's the time to lose weight, remove addictive behavior, cleanse or detoxify and clean up your house. If any of your manifesting goals have to do with reduction, now is the time to manifest.

 

Names of the Moon phases

Some people use the 4 Moon Phases: New Moon, First Quarter, Full Moon, Third Quarter/Last Quarter, but using 8 is more usual for spiritual purposes:

  • New moon.
  • Waxing Crescent.
  • First quarter.
  • Waxing Gibbous.
  • Full moon.
  • Waning Gibbous.
  • Last (third) quarter moon.
  • Waning Crescent

 

Each of those phases have specific energy and specific purposes to work with. I always keep a Moon phases schedule in my journal and if you want to work with the Moon phases I highly encourage you to do so as well. It helps to discover patterns of how you respond to Moon Energy. You might notice that you have a few sleepless nights around Full Moon or are sensitive to nightmares around New Moon. 

 

Each of the Moon phases explained 

 

New Moon 

A great time for new beginnings and undertakings, the moon phase that helps to detoxify the most and allows us to start with small seeds of change. Hardest to work with if you never done any Moon Energy work, as this dark Moon is not always as easy to access for people. It can bring up subconscious pain and upset to cleanse towards a new cycle.


Waxing Crescent

First steps into growing, a good time to spend spiritual energy with area's of your life which are in need of some energy, but where you see some small results already. It's a good time for small ailments or small increments in health that you want to work on.


First quarter

The first leg has been finished towards the Full Moon. This is a great half way point in energy to help you assess where you are going with your goals. First Quarter Moon helps with projects that are underway or health issues which have been healing, but need some more time or more focus.


Waxing Gibbous

Almost Full Moon, the time for when you want to do manifestation or healing work, but need the time and space to be more gentle then the full Moon. If you are inexperienced with Moon Energy it's a great second phase to work with on any topic that needs 'more'. If you feel Full Moon is too heavy, you can also do path finding here if it's for topics about your future.


Full Moon
The most famous phase, excellent to start working with Moon Energy as it's so strong. Wonderful for manifestation and intuitive work. Path finding or subconscious knowledge. Allow the Full Moon to lead the way. Be mindful that emotions can be a little high at this time, so strong reactions can occur. 


Waning Gibbous

Just past Full Moon, is a great time for the release of anything that you feel is "over the hill". Old partners, patterns or outdated thoughts and beliefs become easier to shake. Any type of recent emotional turmoil or upset is easier to smooth over. If you feel Full Moon is too heavy, you can also do path finding here if it's for topics from your past.

 

Last (third) quarter Moon
The halfway point towards the New Moon. A great area time to reflect on what you have been growing and if that's what you actually want. Last Quarter Moon is a great time for reflecting and getting to know yourself and your path. 


Waning Crescent

The last steps before a New Moon, is an excellent time to tie any loose ends and to see what needs to be made ready for the new. Clean up in your life or administration goes smoother and it helps with grieving and letting go. 

 

Want to talk more about the Moon Phases? You can email me, post a comment on the blog or send me a message on the Facebook Fan Page or on Instagram. I'd love to hear your Moon Energy stories!

 

Dear people,

With the state of the world at the moment, a lot of people are struggling with feelings of powerlessness, anxiety and anger. So I felt it's time to write a post with an exercise on how to empower yourself in situations like these. It's so important to not stay stuck in the mindset that nothing you do matters, because that will lead to worse outcomes for everybody. If you notice you keep worrying, you can also read the worst case scenarios blog post to help you through those feelings.

 

I also did a True Unity Video for those of you who want to use True Unity on Powerlessness. Simply join in with the exercise to get yourself back into a centered and empowered place. 


Why feeling powerless is a hard feeling to escape

I'm sure we've all seen our friends and family in a powerless space. They are unable to see any solutions, are dejected and don't seem to have the power, energy or decisiveness to make a change. It doesn't matter how often we give advice, how we reach out and try to help them, they won't transform until they process that feeling of powerlessness. As such, it's no surprise that when we are in that same space, we are also hard to help. 

 

If you want to move forward, it's important to recognize that you are keeping yourself in a powerless space. Especially when saying things like: "There is nothing I can do", or "Nothing will help". Powerlessness is a trap state, where the state itself will reinforce the feeling, so you need to make a conscious effort to move out of it. Once you take the time and space to remember that you are not powerless, you can move forward.

 

Moving out of powerlessness

There are many ways to move out of powerlessness. We can ask for help, surrender to our higher power or find our own inner power. So you can read the blog post or do the True Unity exercise for the first two methods, but I will expand here about the last one. 

 

Finding your inner power can be extremely hard when you are in a powerless place, because you need to either remind yourself of it or reconnect with it. A great way to do that is to help others, because it will remind you of your power. You can also trick yourself by giving yourself advice as your own best friend. It will help open up ideas and advice, even if you know you are just pretending. That's how powerful trying to help others truly is. 

 

Exercise for finding your own inner power

  • Find a place where you can sit still for around 5-10 minutes
  • Close your eyes
  • Breath in and out
  • Visualize your own center of power as a flame
  • Allow Heaven/God/The Universe to fan the flames until you see your own Inner Power as a big roaring fire
  • Allow that fire to warm you and help you in your life
  • Visualize three embers of that fire - they are full of energy but not hot
  • Place one ember on your heart - for connection of your emotions to your power
  • Place one ember on your third eye - for connection of your intuition to your power
  • Place on ember on your head - for connection of your mind to your power
  • Allow yourself to see the thread of fire between your inner power and those embers
  • Breathe in and out and establish healthy connections to your power
  • Whenever you feel ready - open your eyes 

 

Want to comment on this article or talk to me about it? You can email me, post a message on the blog or send me a message on the Facebook Fan Page or on Instagram. And if you want to work with me on connecting to your Inner Power or moving past Powerlessness, send me a message to schedule your free intake. 


Dear People,

We all need the Sacred Masculine in our lives. For a balanced life both the Masculine and the Feminine need to be available to us. Healthy Masculine energy brings strength, protection, confidence and many other benefits. You can check out the Sacred Feminine blog post or Sacred Feminine YouTube Meditation if you want to balance both sides.  


Sacred Masculinity is very important, because we see a lot of toxic masculinity in the world: aggression, inability to process feelings, domineering etc. Sacred Masculinity brings a quiet confidence found in acknowledging your talents, a balanced view of power and responsibility and strength. It's not surprising that there are many painful masculine archetypes, while we need to those that are healthy. So, time to affirm those in ourselves and in the world. If you prefer to meditate you can also watch the Sacred Masculine YouTube Meditation.

 

I write my affirmations in different levels so you can see what resonates with you and what you want to work on. You might start with a lower level that resonates and then move your way up.
Pick and choose what works for you and affirm away (I recommend three times a day if you can manage it).
 
I open myself up to the energy of Sacred Masculine
I accept the energy of the Sacred Masculine
I embrace the energy of the Sacred Masculine
I honor the energy of the Sacred Masculine
I love all facets of the Sacred Masculine
 
I discover the energy of the Sacred Masculine within me
I acknowledge the energy of the Sacred Masculine within me
I embrace the energy of the Sacred Masculine within me
I honor the energy of the Sacred Masculine within me
 
I embrace the protective energy of the Sacred Masculine
I embrace the confident energy of the Sacred Masculine
I embrace the powerful energy of the Sacred Masculine
I embrace the decisive energy of the Sacred Masculine
I embrace the active energy of the Sacred Masculine
I embrace the ruling energy of the Sacred Masculine
 
I open myself to the facets of the Sacred Masculine
I open myself to the energy of the King
I open myself to the energy of the Guardian
I open myself to the energy of the Lover
I open myself to the energy of the Sage
I open myself to the energy of the Protector

I honor the wisdom of the Sacred King Energy
I embrace the duties of the Sacred King Energy
I accept the responsibility of the Sacred King Energy
I enjoy the power of the Sacred King Energy
I guard the balance within the Sacred King Energy
I accept/embrace/love/honor the Sacred King Energy
 
I honor the protectiveness of the Sacred Guardian Energy
I embrace the duties of the Sacred Guardian Energy
I accept the responsibility of the Sacred Guardian Energy
I enjoy protecting the valuable as part of the Sacred Guardian Energy
I guard the balance within the Sacred Guardian Energy
I accept/embrace/love/honor the Sacred Guardian Energy
 
I honor the acceptance of the Sacred Lover Energy
I embrace love of the Sacred Lover Energy
I accept the responsibility of the Sacred Lover Energy
I guard the balance within the Sacred Lover Energy
I enjoy the sexual energy of the Sacred Lover Energy
I accept/embrace/love/honor the Sacred Lover Energy
 
I honor the adventure of the Sacred Sage Energy
I embrace the wisdom of the Sacred Sage Energy
I accept the teachings of the Sacred Sage Energy
I guard the balance within the Sacred Sage Energy
I enjoy the knowledge of the Sacred Sage Energy
I accept/embrace/love/honor the Sacred Sage Energy
 
I honor the responsibilities of the Sacred Protector Energy
I embrace the power of the Sacred Protector Energy
I accept the necessity of the Sacred Protector Energy
I guard the balance within the Sacred Protector Energy
I enjoy the respect of the Sacred Protector Energy
I accept/embrace/love/honor the Sacred Protector Energy
 
Have an affirmation you want to share? Don't hesitate to post it in a comment on the blog or on the Facebook Fan Page or watch the past Instagram Live about affirmations. You can also share your affirmation stories in the practice or by e-mail.


Dear People,

Often I get asked how people in my private life feel about my gifts and if they believe in the work I do. I think it's a valid question but it doesn't have a very easy answer, as each of my family members, extended family members and friends have a different view and I tend not to discuss 'work' often. I think all of you can imagine that talking shop is tiring when you are in social situations. I also highly treasure privacy for my clients. However, there are some common denominators, so I will discuss this in broad strokes.

My Healing Gifts
Not everybody in my private life is open to receiving Healing, but most are willing to experience it through massage. Some people have worked with me and EFT and a select few have received energy therapy/True Unity from me. I have no objection to working with family members or friends, although I sometimes will suggest other types of healing if I believe those to be more effective for them.

Healing is deeply personal so I think it's more difficult for them then it's for me. They sometimes will find out that I know and see a lot more of their intimate or private lives then I ever let on. One family member in particular was a bit shocked with how much information I receive but never pass on, when I was asked to do some Healing work. Sometimes people will feel burdened asking me for a favor as they don't want me to work in social settings, others have no problems asking for a massage or energy therapy when they are hurting. I love to do Healing Work, but I also love to socialize. I'm always happy to help if I can in the moment or else plan a session with them at a later date.

My Psychic Gifts
I don't think anybody in my life has any doubt as to what I can do. Some will call it luck or good analysis when they are uncomfortable with Psychic or vibes, but it will come as no surprise that nobody in my private life is willing to bet against me. I find that quite disappointing, as I like to win bets. They know, even when they don't want to acknowledge where the knowledge comes from, that my advice is solid and my insights are worthwhile.

One time a friend told me he actually despises that he knows I'm Psychic. He knew that there is no way that he can explain why I know what I know or how it works. He felt that was really annoying and not fitting with his world view. He used to think that Psychics just do cold readings or are frauds, but he also knew that I could do Readings without ever even meeting a person (so cold reading is out) and that the information I give is specific and accurate, so it can't be fraud. He was annoyed enough to tell me that I mess with his head. Of course, this was never my intention, I just am who I am. I didn't get an instruction manual when I was born. I just do what I do.

I also have people in my private life who find it quite annoying that I'm 'always right'. While I always say that nobody has 100% accuracy and I don't claim it, they will insist that I'm always right. They ask for advice or my opinion, they try to dismiss it as unlikely or strange and then life unfolds like I said it would. Then they feel very annoyed. This is baffling to me, as I'd love to have somebody in my life giving me solid advice. However, my husband says he completely understands, because I'm always right and that's annoying in itself. I'm hoping some day I will understand.

I also sometimes get complaints that when people talk to me and I say something they never know if it's a stray thought, an idea or a prediction.  One of my friends especially says how he keeps rerunning some of our conversations in his head or feels like he missed something important when something I mentioned comes to pass. I'm always 'on', but not everything I say is a prediction. I usually don't think to make a distinction myself.

So, does that mean that nobody in my private life is appreciative of this part of my gift? Well, no, many people are, just not as appreciative as clients. The difference is, that as my client, you are often ready and willing to listen to advice and gain extra knowledge, while in our private lives sometimes we aren't ready. We ask for advice from friends and then get mad when it's not what we want to hear. In the end, they are usually appreciative and they continue to ask for advice, because they know it's solid. I just wish I would get more gratitude and less frustration. I guess I do often find myself thinking: "Don't shoot the messenger".

Have a question you want to ask me for the blog? Don't hesitate to ask me in the practice or e-mail me.

 

Dear People,

 

We all need the Sacred Feminine in our lives. Whether it's the Earth Mother, who nurtures us all, no questions asked and no judgement, or one of the three Female energies of Maiden, Mother, Crone, the sacred feminine is necessary and vital for our well being.

 

She has many faces in her energy, so no matter what background, you have experienced her energy. You might know this energy as Maria Energy or Quan Yin. I will also soon publish affirmations for the Sacred Masculine, because like ying and yang, they need to be present in our lives together.

 
I write my affirmations in different levels so you can see what resonates with you and what you want to work on. You might start with a lower level that resonates and then move your way up.
Pick and choose what works for you and affirm away (I recommend three times a day if you can manage it).
 
I open myself up to the energy of Sacred Feminine
I accept the energy of the Sacred Feminine
I embrace the energy of the Sacred Feminine
I honor the energy of the Sacred Feminine
I love all facets of the Sacred Feminine
 
I discover the energy of the Sacred Feminine within me
I acknowledge the energy of the Sacred Feminine within me
I embrace the energy of the Sacred Feminine within me
I honor the energy of the Sacred Feminine within me
 
I embrace the nurturing energy of the Sacred Feminine
I embrace the creative energy of the Sacred Feminine
I embrace the loving energy of the Sacred Feminine
I embrace the accepting energy of the Sacred Feminine
I embrace the intuitive energy of the Sacred Feminine
I embrace the protective energy of the Sacred Feminine
 
I open myself to the different stages of the Sacred Feminine
I open myself to the energy of the Maiden
I open myself to the energy of the Mother
I open myself to the energy of the Crone

I honor the vulnerability of the Sacred Maiden Energy
I embrace the dreams of the Sacred Maiden Energy
I accept the vitality of the Sacred Maiden Energy
I enjoy the playfulness of the Sacred Maiden Energy
I accept/embrace/love/honor the Sacred Maiden Energy
 
I honor the nurturing of the Sacred Mother Energy
I embrace the caring of the Sacred Mother Energy
I accept the responsibilities of the Sacred Mother Energy
I enjoy the creativity of the Sacred Mother Energy
I accept/embrace/love/honor the Sacred Mother Energy

I honor the wisdom of the Sacred Crone Energy
I embrace the lessons of the Sacred Crone Energy
I accept the truth of the Sacred Crone Energy
I enjoy the self confidence of the Sacred Crone Energy
I accept/embrace/love/honor the Sacred Crone Energy
 
Have an affirmation you want to share? Don't hesitate to post it in a comment on the blog or on the Facebook Fan Page or watch the past Instagram Live about affirmations. You can also share your affirmation stories in the practice or by e-mail.

 

Dear people,

 

I've written before about unhealthy family patterns and about why True Unity helps heal people you love while you where the only one in the session. Today I'm writing about ancestral wisdom and listening to what kind of gifts have been flowing through you from your family members. A lot of us forget that healing isn't only about what's broken, but also about truly receiving what's good. 


Family Talents you don't seem to have

You might have noticed certain talents in the family you were born in. A lot of people feel those are genetic: so people who are athletic get athletic children for example. However, we also know that nurture counts: often athletic people encourage their children to be athletic. Much of what we receive from our families is based on behavior that is taught. 

 

If a specific family talent seems unexpressed in you, it can make you feel like an outsider in your family or a failure. Some people find they become a family scapegoat, because they don't conform or start feeling pride in being different. If it's genuine and authentic, that's fine. But if it's a defense mechanism or trauma, then it is worth it to heal it.


Taking some time to sit with those feelings is a good way to heal them, find the core problem and help yourself express family talents. You can do that for example with my video Breaking Free of Image Issues to reach a state of authenticity or do some inner reflection.


Once this wound is healed, you might find that while you never excelled at a team sport, your body is in a great condition or you might have just expressed it through a solitary sport. Sometimes people start feeling attracted towards a family talent after healing and find out they are talented in that way as well, they just never tried it before. 


Family Gifts that you would like to receive

You might have a family member that has a trait that you really admire. Your aunt's dedication or your grandfathers willpower. If you take the time, you might see those traits expressed in other family members as well. They might even been acknowledged by saying: "He's just like grandad" or "The apple didn't fall far from the tree with that one". 

 

A simple way to open up to that gift is imaging Heaven/Spirit/God/The Universe giving that gift to your family members and include yourself in it. Imagine gifts of confidence, joy, abundance, etc. filling up your whole family tree, including members who married in and even unborn children. This powerful exercise will allow everybody to reach new levels of Family Gifts. 

 

You can also imagine you sharing your gifts with your family, so that those can be shared around and returned at even higher levels to you. When we share our gifts, we grow. Nobody is left behind when it comes with family gifts, but for some it might take longer to express them, if they have negative stories, beliefs or other blockages. 


Doing this exercise a few times will allow you to see that it works and you will notice yourself acting more in tune with the quality you were hoping to receive. If you notice you have big blockages keeping you from those gifts, feel free to contact me for an intake to unlock your potential. 


Want to comment on this article or talk to me about it? You can email me, post a message on the blog or send me a message on the Facebook Fan Page or on Instagram.

 

Dear People, 

I recently had an interesting question: "how we know we are healed?" It's not that easy to answer in just a few sentences, so I have decided to write a blog post about it. A healing path is very personal, with obstacles and goals along the way, so how do we know it has ended?


Onion model of healing

I strongly believe that we all continue to grow and learn, so that means we also continue to heal throughout life. It's like we are an onion, peeling back layer after layer, until we reach our own core, who we are meant to be. Our soul is like a diamond and we keep on creating more and more shiny facets. 


As such, we never truly reach the end of healing so the answer to the question would be: You are never healed, but always healing. It's true in a way, but also a very unsatisfying answer. 

 

However, understanding this model means you understand that sometimes we think we are healed, but yet, another layer comes up. That doesn't mean you weren't healed before, but it does mean a new level of health is available to you. 

 

For example: if you healed childhood trauma, new pain may show up when you become a parent yourself. Suddenly, some parts of you that you never were able to see as harmed, show up to be healed and you can reach a new level of healing. In between becoming a parent and healing the trauma however, you probably felt completely healed and free.


Healing the level you are at

So I usually tell people I help heal a level of their lives, which allows them to be happy and grow again (instead of being stuck in pain, trauma or a rut), but it doesn't guarantee that you never face a new level of healing. So it's very normal for me to have clients who come back to heal new levels or areas of their lives.

 

So how do you know that the level you were at is healed and you are free and clear moving into a new level? 

 

For me personally, I check for the following things:

 

  • Frequency: If the problem was occurring frequently, is it now hardly ever there or even non-existent?
  • Impact: If the problem had negative consequences, how have those consequences changed? Does it have negative consequences at all or are you now neutral about it?
  • Capability: Can you now handle the problem easily and without pain?
  • Growth: Do you notice you are handling the problem differently?
  • Next step: Did you get new opportunities and/or results showing you that you have moved on from this level?

 

For example, if you had trauma with a family member, being able to be around them and dealing in a positive way with their behavior, would count as healed. If you are however still experiencing anxiety, pain, hurt or guilt, that means you haven't healed it at that level.  

 

If you have had a pattern of bad partnerships, being healed would count if you no longer carry negativity from your ex-partners, but it certainly would be clear healing if you build a healthy partnership with a new partner (next step healing). That doesn't mean you never have any fights, but you definitely can see the difference between previous relationships and your new one.


I would of course prefer to help people reach their next level in one session, but sometimes that's too big a leap for people to comfortably take. Healing must be done at the correct pace, else it will cause harm or stall. Too fast means people will usually block themselves, too slow and we lose hope and get stuck in detours. So for true healing, it's vital to know where the problem lies and to solve that. After that, the energy will just do it's work.

 

Want to ask me a question about my work? Post a comment on the blog, Facebook Fan Page, on Instagram or talk to me in the practice.

 

Dear People,

It can be quite hard to stay in touch with your own authentic self. You might not feel supported or have suffered trauma in the past. Being yourself is a life long journey, so I've written these affirmations to learn to embrace yourself in love and light.

I write my affirmations in different levels so you can see what resonates with you and what you want to work on. You might start with a lower level that resonates and then move your way up.
Pick and choose what works for you and affirm away (I recommend three times a day if you can manage it).
 
I find the people who are supportive of my authentic self 
I find the situations that are supportive of my authentic self 
I find the businesses that are supportive of my authentic self 
I find the work that is supportive of my authentic self
I find the clients that are supportive of my authentic self
I find the partner that is supportive of my authentic self  
I know Heaven/Spirit/God is supportive of my authentic self  
I support my authentic self 
My authentic self is always supported
 
I am willing to be my authentic self 
I am able to be my authentic self
I am comfortable being my authentic self
I am happy being my authentic self 
I am proud to be my authentic self
I love my authentic self
I am my authentic self
 
I am willing to know my authentic self
I am willing to show my authentic self to my loved ones
I am willing to show my authentic self to the world
I am willing to share my authentic self with the world
I am willing to share my authentic self
 
I understand that my authentic self is needed
I understand that my authentic self is wanted
I understand that my authentic self is desired
I understand that my authentic self is unique
 
Have an affirmation you want to share? Don't hesitate to post it in a comment on the blog or on the Facebook Fan Page or watch the past Instagram Live about affirmations. You can also share your affirmation stories in the practice or by e-mail.