Dear People,
I recently spoke about the technique of Psychometry in my Dutch Spiritual Column and I've made a Creating Joy Video about it as well. This technique is defined in the dictionary as "divination of facts concerning an object or its owner through contact with or proximity to the object". For many people it's just considered token-reading. So let's discuss this technique for a bit today and try it out for yourself with a small exercise.
What is Psychometry?
The idea behind Psychometry is that energy from the owner will find it's way into objects. The ring you wear, your clothing, etc. etc. they all soak up your energies daily. Large items like your home, your car etc. will also soak up your energies. So basically everything you surround yourself with is included in this energy exchange. People who are sensitive can read that energy and know things about you and your future.
Some Psychics that work with Psychometry will ask you to have a token in your home for a few days and then bring it with you to the appointment. Flowers are very popular for that, but another popular way to do psychometry is with photos.
Why use Psychometry?
If you are already sensitive to energy it makes a lot of sense to try to see if psychometry gives you good results. You can start by honing the skill on your own items, but doing that makes is hard to distinguish between what you already know about yourself and what you are actually sensing.
Hopefully, you do have items in your home that belong to others. Maybe you have some second hand items, heirlooms or things you borrowed. It's of course easier to use psychometry on items from people you know as it's easier to confirm what you are receiving. I do highly recommend asking for permission if you choose to read an item belong to another living person. Everybody deserves privacy and you never know what information might come true. I know some people are confident that higher power/God/The Universe won't share what you aren't meant to know, but personally, I don't subscribe to that.
Psychometry Exercise
- Take around 10-15 minutes for this exercise
- Select an item that you want to read
- Gently close your eyes
- Breathe in and out until you feel comfortable and at peace
- Visualize opening your third eye and affirm that you are willing to listen to your intuition
- Touch the object that you want to read
- Register all the sounds, smells, thoughts, images etc. that come to you
- Let go of the object
- Gently open your eyes, drink a bit of water and do some grounding
- If needed, do some cleansing, like washing your hands
- Write down your impressions and check them with the owner of the object
Repeat this exercise regularly to see if this spiritual technique comes easily to you or and if you want continue working with psychometry. For some, the impressions can be too much, and than grounding and cleansing becomes very important, for others the difference between what you are imagining and what you are really intuitively receiving can be hard to distinguish and others don't receive any impressions at all.
Don't be discouraged if this isn't the technique for you, there are many spiritual techniques to help us work with our intuition and be in tune with our soul path.
If you want to share your experience with psychometry or my exercises, you can email me, post a comment here on the blog or send me a message on the Facebook Fan Page or on Instagram.
Dear People,
I recently spoke about walking meditation on the radio in my Dutch Spiritual Column, but I'm sharing some more thoughts and exercises about this technique today. I love so many forms of meditation, but walking meditation is so suited to many people, that I want to share more about it. I've also already written about my own meditation practices, but today I'm writing more specifically about walking meditations.
Why try a walking meditation?
For a lot of us - the idea of sitting still and meditating is quite daunting. We keep feeling distracted by our body, our thoughts and our position. Sitting still is definitely not everybody's cup of tea. Yet, a lot of us have felt the freeing clearheaded feeling that can be created when our body is in motion. It might be while we are running, using a swing set or rocking a baby. Repetitive motion can help us get into a trance like state.
So it's no surprise that a walking meditation is an easier way to get into a meditative trance for a lot of people. And, of course, in our busy lives, it's nice to have the additional benefits of walking on top of the benefits of our meditation practice. So even if you've been discouraged with other ways of meditation, I highly recommend you at least give walking meditation a try.
Basic needs for walking meditation
Yourself and a place to walk are basically the most important things. I recommend wearing clothing and shoes that are comfortable for you and no jewelry. That means you won't be distracted by tight fitting clothing or sounds as you walk and your feet won't hurt. And if you want to sit and rest after your walk, you are comfortable and can extend your trance like state.
As for the place: you can do walking meditation everywhere, even in your own living room. I do recommend that you walk somewhere safe. Especially if you want to walk with your eyes closed. So while technically you can do a walking meditation by walking in your neighbourhood, if it's busy, I don't recommend doing it. Not only are busy streets distracting, you can also harm yourself if you do reach a meditative trance.
Best place outside for me is usually the beach when it's not busy (spring/fall season), because you have a wide open space with not much people. That means that you have a lot of visibility. Sounds of the sea/ocean also work to help bring me in a meditative state. Another good option is usually a park or forest when there aren't much people. Or a mountain path or pasture. Being in nature means it's easier to be meditative, but please be mindful of your safety.
If you want to walk inside your own home, make sure to clear a space around you. If your walking meditation keeps getting disrupted because you need to step over things or turn very quickly, that usually doesn't work. We all like to have at least a couple of strides in each direction.
A basic walking meditation
- Prep: wear comfortable clothing, shoes and no jewelry. Bring a snack and a bottle of water (or other beverage)
- Select (or prepare) a safe area in which you are going to do your meditation
- Start walking in your natural pace
- Become mindful of your pace, your body and yourself
- Walk in a soothing rhythm or pace that allows you to walk for a length of time and to 'zone out with your thoughts'
- Once you are at peace - sit down, eat and drink something
- If needed, do a grounding exercise
Deepening your walking meditation practice
Once you have the basics down and feel that walking meditation is something you'd like to do more often, there are many variations you can do to see what works best for you. You can also change your walking meditation practice depending on what your goal is for the meditation.
Here are some tips on what to try:
- Walking with your eyes closed or open. If you do closed, the best way to do this is to create a circle and walk safely in it or to create a square (for example, 4 steps forward, turn right, 4 steps forward, turn right, 4 steps forward, turn right, 4 steps forward and you are back at your beginning). I do not recommend walking with your eyes closed if you have not set a safe path for yourself!
- Changing the pace of your strides. Going from fast to slow or standstill if you need more peace or moving from a stressful pacing towards a more relaxed stride. It's also possible to move from slow to increased pace, for example if your goal is to accelerate something in your life. It's much harder to reach a meditative trance by going faster though. Changing pace during the meditation can also help, if you want to get more in touch with the cycle of life. Or just noticing you do this subconsciously (speeding up or slowing down).
- Stopping and starting at places in your meditation. You can do this to get more viewpoints, tune into your body, take time to see what your natural pace is, acknowledge what's changing during the meditation and for many other reasons.
- Walking in a pattern. Different patterns help us with different things. A square helps with feeling solid, a circle is a closed loop, a spiral inwards can help introspection and one outwards can help with goal setting and connecting with life, a triangle can help with different viewpoints or with different aspects of ourselves or a problem. Or walk a trail with your eyes open and acknowledge what you see, hear and feel during it.
- Walking with intention - you can do a mantra during the walk or bring an energy with you (for example by drawing one of my 100% Positivity Oracle Cards - which you can do for free on my website).
- Walking with a question or with a issue, allowing inspiration and higher power to solve it for you.
As you can see, walking meditation is quite versatile. I'd love to hear how you experience walking meditation! Post a comment here on the blog or send me a
message on the Facebook Fan Page or on Instagram. Or listen to my Dutch Column: Spiritueel Moment Loopmeditatie and leave a comment there! I sometimes host walking meditations or other meditation in my practice in Delft, The Netherlands or the surrounding area. If you are interested, sign up to the Monthly Newsletter to be the first to know of any meditation events.
Dear People,
I recently spoke about Pendulums on the radio in my Dutch Spiritual Column, but thought I'd write a blog post about it as well. I did mention using a pendulum in my blog post concerning if I use my gifts to find lost items
but I'd like to expand on what you can use this spiritual technique for and how to try it out at home. If you want to know more about this technique
you can also listen to me talk about it in my Dutch Column: Spiritueel Moment Pendelen.
Why use a Pendulum?
I find a pendulum to be a very easily accessible spiritual tool. Unlike Tarot or Oracle Cards, most people already own something that they can use as a pendulum. You can use a key chain, a necklace with a pendant or basically anything that has a string and a heavier object on it.
Besides having the tool readily available to most people, the basic Yes/No swings of a pendulum are usually easy to discern. So you can teach somebody how to work with a pendulum in just a few minutes - although it's a lot harder to get consistent good results of course. Practice makes perfect as always.
When working with a pendulum it's also very quick to get answers and it's quick to get several answer in a row. That means that while basic Yes/No questions might not seem very useful to many people, they can be used to narrow down answers fast. For example: Is my phone in the house / Is on the first first floor / is it in my bed room / is it on the floor / hidden in something else etc. etc.
Pendulum Pitfalls
When doing any intuitive work, it's often hard to distinguish between what we want to be true, what we fear to be true and what our intuition is actually telling us. When using a pendulum, it's easy to subconsciously try to influence the result due to our movements. So it's very important to keep your arm and hand steady, so it's actually the pendulum doing the answering and not your own subconscious. I've seen people move their arms/hands and being unaware that they are influencing their results. It helps to watch yourself in a mirror or to close your eyes until you feel a good swing and then check your results.
Another disadvantage of the Pendulum is that it doesn't give much extra information. You need to ask it the right questions to move forward. And if you forget an aspect, you might not get the full picture. For example, if you are asking about job offers and you forget to ask if a better offer is coming, you might choose the best offer available to you that you got answers on. When working with Oracle or Tarot Cards you can easily draw one card for insight and that you missed something and what it is. You can ask your pendulum if you are missing something, but then you'd have to ask a lot of questions to figure out what exactly it is.
Pendulum Charts
If you want a range of answers fast, you can use a Pendulum Chart. If you have several options, you can put them in a chart and see what your pendulum indicates. If you get a good feel for it, you can make charts with a lot of options in them. I recommend using a circle, so it's easy to use. However, when you are starting, having a chart with 4 quadrants makes it easier to see what answer is being indicated.
Pendulum Tips
Feel inspired to give it a try? Here are some quick tips to use a pendulum/
- Make sure your position your arm and hand correctly. You can see how I do it in my Creating Joy: Pendulums Video
- While it's tempting to give your pendulum a big swing, just waiting patiently while it picks up some speed usually gives the best results.
- If you get tired out fast, it often means your pendulum is too heavy - so if you use a necklace, use one with a lighter pendant and if you use a key chain, remove some keys from it.
- Make sure you ask first what indicates a yes and what indicates a no. It can be different depending on your pendulum. While it's tempting to think a yes is a vertical direction and a no is a horizontal (as shaking your head no) that is not always the case.
- Besides using Yes/No indicators you can also create "Maybe yes/Maybe No/Maybe/Unknown. Just name the indicator and see what happens on the pendulum swing. You can see horizontal, vertical, circles, but also diagonals.
Pendulum Practice Questions
The best practice questions are those you do not know the answer too, but you can find out easily and quickly. That might mean you ask questions for somebody else (who knows the answers) or you ask questions that have easy to verify answers. So these questions won't give you any super useful information, but do help you practice getting a feel for the pendulum. After you've had a couple of successes, it's much easier to trust your process and ask questions that matter to you and give you new information.
Practice questions:
- How much mail is in my mailbox?
- Will my package be delivered today?
- Do I have an email from X?
- Will I be rained on today?
- Will I find a parking spot near X?
- Will I receive a phone call from X?
- Will I meet X today?
- Will I have a seat on the bus/tram/subway?
- Did I get a good grade/pass my test?
- Do I fit in my jeans/bikini/shoes?
- Do I have an assignment due this week?
- Will X be in stock at the store?
Want to discuss Pendulums or share your experiences? Post a comment here on the blog or send me a
message on the Facebook Fan Page or on Instagram. Or listen to my Dutch Column: Spiritueel Moment Pendelen or watch Creating Joy: Pendulums and leave a comment there!
Dear People,
I recently spoke about Remote Viewing in my column on the Radio, but thought I'd write a blog post about it as well. I did mention Remote Viewing in my blog post concerning if I use my gifts to find lost items but I didn't describe what I would actually do. I'm going to write a bit more about this technique today as well as give an exercise so you can try it for yourself. If you want to know more about this technique you can also listen to me talk about it in my Dutch Column: Spiritueel Moment: Remote Viewing.
What is Remote Viewing
Remote Viewing is a technique designed to seek information or impressions about something. Usually a distant or unseen subject, but it can be an object, event, person or location. Some people close their eyes, while others like to keep them open and draw their impressions.
It's been made famous a bit, due to to research by the US Military as well as the CIA. Some people think remote viewing is done by traveling out of body, while others believe it's using a psychic eye. In any case, it's definitely flexes your psychic muscles.
Why would you use Remote Viewing
I guess it's easy to see how you could use remote viewing as a type of spying, but most people use it for lost objects or to just train their psychic skills. For example if you lost your keys, trying to use remote viewing can give you a much better idea of where they might be.
Using it to practice your psychic skills usually means you'd check basic things that you can easily check later or doing it with a group. I've worked with others in a remote viewing group - we'd check in on a certain member holding a photo - and discuss our impressions together later. It was interesting to see who tuned into what and how close or far we were from our test subject.
Remote Viewing Exercises
Curious how you'd do with remote viewing? Here are two remote viewing exercises so you can give it a try.
Exercise 1: Remote viewing your Mail
- Take around 5-10 minutes for this exercise
- Make sure you are comfortable and can't be disturbed by your phone etc.
- Imagine your mailbox, your doormat or whatever you use to get your mail
- Imagine you opening your third eye (or if you want to try by psychic traveling - imagine floating above your object)
- What can you see? Do you see any mail? Colors of envelops? Notice or hear numbers? Have an idea who they are from?
- Write down all your impressions, sounds, numbers, colors etc.
- Gently open your eyes, drink a bit of water and do some grounding
- Check how you did by going to collect your mail
Exercise 2: Remote viewing a photo
- Take around 5-10 minutes for this exercise
- Make sure you are comfortable and can't be disturbed by your phone etc.
- Grab a book with photo's or a deck of cards
- Close your eyes and randomly open your book (travel books are best!) or draw card from your deck
- Place your hand on your object
- Recite your impressions: colors, sounds, numbers, energy, ideas
- Open your eyes and see how you did!
- Afterwards drink a bit of water and do some grounding
Want to discuss Remote Viewing? Post a comment here on the blog or send me a
message on the Facebook Fan Page or on Instagram. Or listen to my Dutch Column: Spiritueel Moment: Remote Viewing and leave a comment there!
Dear People,
One of the most beautiful joys of a Psychic Life is that once you start opening up to your intuition, most of us start feeling trust in a higher source. It might be God, The Universe, Higher Self, Guardian Angels or whatever you are comfortable calling this power. Connecting means you will notice that huge source of love, wisdom and abundance is available to you. It's such a joy to feel that in your life every single day.
Natural connection
You often see the natural connection in children. They believe the world is good. They believe in others and in themselves. I love Pippi Longstockings' motto:
“I have never tried that before, so I think I should definitely be able to do that.”
Which just highlights how much confidence and trust is available to us when we are open to it. Gradually we throw up blocks like heartbreaks, disappointment, insecurities etc. but once we reconnect to the source again, we feel that boundless support that helps us through life in the best possible ways.
Regaining connection
Tuning in to your intuition, getting to a higher vibration, meditation, prayer, there are hundreds of paths back to the connection that you can take. But the biggest hurdle is often our own fear of any Greater Power. If you have troubles with that, check out my True Unity Video: Fear of the Spirit World. People are afraid to surrender to something bigger then themselves, afraid of being judged as not good enough, while there is only boundless love waiting.
Just look around you, most people who are deeply spiritually connected are vibrant, alive, loving, at peace and have qualities that you'd probably love to have. So they aren't lying when they say there is a greater source of love. If you are willing to take the steps in regaining that connection, you can also use my Spiritual Connection Manifesting Meditation.
Honoring connection
Once your connection is growing, it becomes natural to honor it. To feel blessed and grateful for all the blessings coming your way, but also for the support, guidance and wisdom you receive. Whenever we honor what brings us joy, happiness or any other positive, we attract more of it in our lives.
You can do a ritual to honor the connection, but a simple and heartfelt thank you is fine. Just taking the time and energy is all that is necessary. So let the gratitude in your heart grow and feel how the connection becomes even more filled with light.
Have a story to share about feeling connected? Post a comment here on the blog, on the Facebook Fan Page, on Instagram or talk to me in the practice.
Dear People,
I often get great results from my dreams and I even wrote about Dream Work before, so you can learn to also use your dreams with spiritual techniques. Today I'm writing about some experiences in which I have had myself. I love that my dreams are meaningful and help guide my life.
Straight Forward Dream Guidance
The easiest guidance dreams are just 100% clear and uncomplicated. I remember once dreaming that one of my guides came to tell me that I had an infection. Apparently, I hadn't noticed the signals of my body due to stress and a lot of normal day to day stuff. So the next day when I woke up, I scheduled a doctors visit, had it confirmed, got antibiotics and felt a lot better.
I don't know many people who have had dreams as straight forward as that. But I have had many. It makes it super simple to take positive and healthy steps in your life.
Past Life Dream Guidance
It took a long time for me to accept that Past Lives are a thing. It didn't really feature in my world view, but the reason I had to admit to it eventually, were mostly due to my past life dreams. I've had many in which I've been able to understand things in my current life.
I would dream about me as a man, about different time periods and about meeting people who I know in this life, only they were different. In the beginning I would call them movie dreams, because it was like watching a movie, but still being invested in the main character, who somehow, felt like me.
Sometimes they weren't that happy, like the dream were I got stabbed. I woke up with a start and did ache for at least half an hour. Mostly though it would be day to day things and recognizing were some of my skills and talents have come from. It helped me feel more at peace with many things in my life.
Prophetic Dreams
I had a lot of dreams 'come true' and they come in several flavors. Sometimes it's a bit metaphorical. I remember dreaming a Tarot Deck was floating towards me across the ocean and hearing the next day I won a contest and the deck would be shipped from the USA towards me in the Netherlands.
Other times it's very literal and what I dream comes to pass almost 100% like my dream. Usually these are warning dreams of people passing away, so I have some time to come to terms with things, but sometimes they are happy dreams about things that will come to pass.
Healing Dreams
I always have dreams where my guides or Angels come to help me heal. Sometimes they give me advice. Sometimes I dream that they do something energetically for me. Once in a dream they rubbed an egg all over my body and then afterwards they cracked it. I thought it was a very weird dream, until somebody told me that this kind of healing actually is done. Shamanic Egg Healing exists in our world.
I love having healing dreams and finding blockages or problems removed while I'm asleep. It's relaxing but super effective.
Have a dream story to share? Post a comment here on the blog, on the Facebook Fan Page, on Instagram or talk to me in the practice.
Dear People,
Recently I got asked again if I could help find a missing item. It's not a service I offer, so it's not on the website, but since this sometimes come up and sadly, we all lose items, I decided to write about it today. I reckon we all lost things we care about for a little while or maybe even permanently and wouldn't it be nice to know where those items are?
How I find items most of the time
For me personally, if I can't find something, I first try to find things the usual way. I look around to see if I can find it. If that's unsuccessful I go through my memory and try to recreate the situation or the whole day to see where I would have put something. Often I find my keys dropped behind something or notice that I left them in a jacket pocket.
I once also found my husbands iPad by just going through the motions of how he thinks and behaves. It was in between the mattresses of our bed. He normally leaves it on the floor, but since he did some vacuum cleaning he decided to put it up. He was also going to change the sheets, so on top didn't make sense and he placed it in between. For him, me finding it, after he looked on his desks, in his bags and throughout the house was like magic. For me it made perfect sense.
Using my Psychic Gifts to find items for myself
So if I can't seem to find my item I usually try to use a pendulum. It can swing towards the item you are looking for and I can ask it yes/no questions to see where something is. However, it's very easy to influence your pendulum when you are anxious or upset, so using it to find items isn't always my forte.
I once lost my own pendulum after giving a Pendulum Workshop. So I then used my keys to try to find it. It kept saying it was in the hallway and specifically in my bag. I had looked everywhere in it (I thought) so I was so upset that I just couldn't find it. In the end I gave up on finding it and a sweet client gifted me with a new one later on.
A few months later I was using the exact same backpack and realized it had a small pocket in the front. A pocket I normally never use (as it's easily accessible for thieves). I opened that tiny pocket and found my pendulum! So yeah, my gifts had been telling me all along it was in that bag in the hallway, but I still hadn't found it!
Using my Psychic Gifts to find items for others
Once somebody asked the whole forum of Tarot Readers if they could help her find her camera. Everybody got different cards of course, because God will show you what you need to hear, in it's own voice for you. A lot of people hoped to see similarities in the answers, so that it would be easier to pinpoint the camera.
I don't remember what card I got exactly, but I told her I thought it was in her bathroom, seeing a shower and some other things and probably in a laundry basket if she had one. I could just see things on top of it, so it wasn't easily visible. It was definitely a super strange place for a camera to end up, especially because she feared it got lost either in her car or at another location. Imagine her surprise when she told me 1) I definitely described her bathroom and 2) she found it in between her clothing in her laundry basket!
The Tarot Readers felt I didn't exactly use the Tarot Card to find it though, especially as with my gifts it sounded more like remote viewing, finding something based on my impressions of somebodies home and not the keywords from cards. That's fair, because while I use the cards as a tool, my own gifts give more information then just the card.
A client once asked me if I could help her find a little box with jewelry that she had misplaced. She had looked everywhere but hadn't found it and was really desperate. It was lost for years and while she was always hoping it would turn up, she decided to ask if I could look for it. I used my gifts and got a few impressions that I sent to her. She was very happy to report that she found it based on my descriptions.
While I wish I only had success stories, I also have had impressions that weren't clear enough to solve the case, although the items were found afterwards. In hindsight it made sense based on my description, but in the moment it didn't give enough information to find it. I also noticed in some cases that items were really lost/outside the home and didn't get enough information to figure out where.
It's though to use my gifts to find items, especially since I often do it without ever setting foot in somebodies home. Since I can't guarantee a good success rate and it's very time intensive I chose not to offer any services like this professionally.
Do you have a funny story of finding items with your gifts or have a question you want to ask me for the blog? Don't hesitate to leave a comment, ask me in the practice, through DM on Instagram or Facebook or e-mail me.
Dear People,
Often I get asked how people in my private life feel about my gifts and if they believe in the work I do. I think it's a valid question but it doesn't have a very easy answer, as each of my family members, extended family members and friends have a different view and I tend not to discuss 'work' often. I think all of you can imagine that talking shop is tiring when you are in social situations. I also highly treasure privacy for my clients. However, there are some common denominators, so I will discuss this in broad strokes.
My Healing Gifts
Not everybody in my private life is open to receiving Healing, but most are willing to experience it through massage. Some people have worked with me and EFT and a select few have received energy therapy/True Unity from me. I have no objection to working with family members or friends, although I sometimes will suggest other types of healing if I believe those to be more effective for them.
Healing is deeply personal so I think it's more difficult for them then it's for me. They sometimes will find out that I know and see a lot more of their intimate or private lives then I ever let on. One family member in particular was a bit shocked with how much information I receive but never pass on, when I was asked to do some Healing work. Sometimes people will feel burdened asking me for a favor as they don't want me to work in social settings, others have no problems asking for a massage or energy therapy when they are hurting. I love to do Healing Work, but I also love to socialize. I'm always happy to help if I can in the moment or else plan a session with them at a later date.
My Psychic Gifts
I don't think anybody in my life has any doubt as to what I can do. Some will call it luck or good analysis when they are uncomfortable with Psychic or vibes, but it will come as no surprise that nobody in my private life is willing to bet against me. I find that quite disappointing, as I like to win bets. They know, even when they don't want to acknowledge where the knowledge comes from, that my advice is solid and my insights are worthwhile.
One time a friend told me he actually despises that he knows I'm Psychic. He knew that there is no way that he can explain why I know what I know or how it works. He felt that was really annoying and not fitting with his world view. He used to think that Psychics just do cold readings or are frauds, but he also knew that I could do Readings without ever even meeting a person (so cold reading is out) and that the information I give is specific and accurate, so it can't be fraud. He was annoyed enough to tell me that I mess with his head. Of course, this was never my intention, I just am who I am. I didn't get an instruction manual when I was born. I just do what I do.
I also have people in my private life who find it quite annoying that I'm 'always right'. While I always say that nobody has 100% accuracy and I don't claim it, they will insist that I'm always right. They ask for advice or my opinion, they try to dismiss it as unlikely or strange and then life unfolds like I said it would. Then they feel very annoyed. This is baffling to me, as I'd love to have somebody in my life giving me solid advice. However, my husband says he completely understands, because I'm always right and that's annoying in itself. I'm hoping some day I will understand.
I also sometimes get complaints that when people talk to me and I say something they never know if it's a stray thought, an idea or a prediction. One of my friends especially says how he keeps rerunning some of our conversations in his head or feels like he missed something important when something I mentioned comes to pass. I'm always 'on', but not everything I say is a prediction. I usually don't think to make a distinction myself.
So, does that mean that nobody in my private life is appreciative of this part of my gift? Well, no, many people are, just not as appreciative as clients. The difference is, that as my client, you are often ready and willing to listen to advice and gain extra knowledge, while in our private lives sometimes we aren't ready. We ask for advice from friends and then get mad when it's not what we want to hear. In the end, they are usually appreciative and they continue to ask for advice, because they know it's solid. I just wish I would get more gratitude and less frustration. I guess I do often find myself thinking: "Don't shoot the messenger".
Have a question you want to ask me for the blog? Don't hesitate to ask me in the practice or e-mail me.
Dear People,
Psychic life is especially good in helping us stay in the blessing of good fortune. People who are in tune with the energy of the Universe and with their intuition often have lucky breaks. They are at the right place at the right time, they seem to find what they are looking for and attract good fortune. I feel everybody has the right to receive this, so read on how you can manifest more good fortune.
Create your own luck story
I have always felt that I'm a lucky duck or as we say in Dutch, lucky bird. I've noticed that a lot of people have a bad luck stories. They tell me that they never win anything, always have bad luck etc. Once you are in that mindset, it's very hard to manifest any good luck, let alone good fortune. You are rowing against the current of your own belief system.
So take some time to create your own luck story. Find instances in your life where you felt lucky or something of great good fortune happened to you. Start affirming that you are lucky. Ask your intuition to help you find your luckiest paths and to bring you great good fortune. You will be surprised what the combination of releasing your old belief system, taking time to listen in the now and affirming with gratitude afterwards will do for your good fortune.
I'm sure a lot of people won't think I had a lucky life, based on the amount of health challenges I faced, but I do feel lucky. I have many stories of winning contests or lotteries (although no huge jackpots yet), stories of getting discounts or being where I need to be. I do practice manifestation in many forms. If you want to manifest with me, you can listen to my Manifestation Meditation series.
Staying in the Flow of Miracles or creating one
Another good way to have more good fortune is to stay in the Flow and specifically the Flow of Miracles. Flow is the sensation that everything is going well, that we feel vibrant and alive and that getting things done is effortless. Getting into the Flow will become easier when you decide to live a spiritual aware life, so that's why I'm always doing Monthly Next Step Readings. Knowing which energy is available and what the natural Flow of life is doing, definitely helps to get your life flowing well.
Moving upwards from the Flow to the Flow of Miracles is one that I highly recommend. Once you are open to the idea of sudden unexpected positive change, which is what Miracles are, you will find that they will happen more and more often. Definitely let go of any beliefs that block Miracles and understand that they happen around us every single day.
You can easily create a Flow of Miracles by surrendering to your idea of a higher power and trusting that you will be led to where you need to go. The more you do this, the easier it is for Miracles to appear and for you to release what has been blocking them. Be sure to keep the faith strong or if you feel like you can't do this on your own, you can always ask me for help or join in with any of my free offerings.
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Dear People,
A lot has been written about how to deal with negative energy when you are energy sensitive and intuitive, but what about positive energy? When we are energy sensitive we can easily recharge in positive environments and feel immense feelings of contentment and peace. Time to share my favorite energy recharging places and habits.
Forest/Plants/Trees
We make jokes about 'tree hugging', but the positive environment of trees and plants is well documented. There has been research showing people that work in office spaces with plants actually have better hormone levels.
Recharging in the forest is wonderful, just a slow walk under the trees can uplift and relax us. Actually hugging a tree is also a wonderful way to feel grounded, strong and stable. So, sneak a hug when nobody is looking if you feel self conscious and let the tree help you recharge.
If you can't get away, getting some easy plants at home or in your garden is also a wonderful way to stay connected to the recharging energy of Mother Earth. Watch my Creating Joy with Plants video to see me with some of my plants.
Ocean/Sea/Beach/Water
I'm a true sea child and I do love love the sound of waves, prefer being on the water and love to swim. A lot of people recognize the recharging energy of the water. They talk about feeling better after a beach walk, feeling it clears their head or soothes their heart.
Recharging near the water is wonderful if you have a troubled heart, as water helps us (re-)connect with our feelings, cleanses negative energy and brings out a playful side in us. So dipping your toes in the water or hearing a stream is a wonderful way to recharge.
If you can't get away, consider recharging under the shower or in the bath tub (especially with some nice bubble bath bombs), listening to some water music (streams, waterfall or thunderstorm) or just taking a relaxing foot bath.
Crystals/Caves
Even people aren't inclined to believe that semi precious stones or crystals can improve people's lives acknowledge their beauty. There is something special about the thousands of years a crystal has grown and how it has done so organically. The energy of caves can be awe inspiring and make us feel comforted and safe.
I own a lot of small and a few big pieces, but I love working with Crystals. They can easily recharge us if we wear them, have them in our spaces (desks/beds etc.) or are just around us. I have many so it's hard to say what my favorite would be. I highly recommend also recharging your stones.
If you want to see some of my collection, check out my Instagram, You will see pieces I work with appear there regularly or check the Creating Joy: Crystals video. I also have a collection at my practice that I use in healing work or during workshops.
Art/Music/Dance
Seeing uplifting art, listening to music or getting on our feet to dance, these connections with human made creativity are all a wonderful way to recharge. It doesn't matter if you are looking at formal art in a museum or gallery, going to a concert or dancing professionally or if you are just seeing something at home, human creativity recharges us.
I admit I own a lot of art, because I love recharging with it and being in a wonderful atmosphere. Creating your own art is also a wonderful way to uplift and recharge.
Meditation
Meditation is also a great way to recharge. I have several in the Manifestation Meditation Playlist that especially help recharging depending on my needs. There is Perfect Health, Recharging, Rejuvenation and Healthy Sleep.
I also like walking meditation, but I don't find it as useful for recharging if I'm starting from a low physical level. I also feel the same about laughter meditation. I need to have a certain level of fitness before I do meditation forms that are more physical. Yet, if I'm looking for a mental or emotional recharge, those forms can really help a lot.
So, don't focus only on the irritants of negative energy that you might be feeling day to day because you are sensitive, but celebrate the many ways of positive energy available to us daily. I'm sure I know many more ways to recharge with energy, but these are the ones I use the most.
Let me know how you recharge with positive energy or ask me a question on the blog, Facebook Fan page, Instagram or in the practice if you want to hear more about my Psychic Life.
Dear People,
Often in our lives circumstances aren't like we want them to be. We can feel upset, insecure and unhappy when we don't see any changes happening. We might feel like we are walking the wrong path and give up prematurely or get angry and stop walking. One of the joys of Psychic Life is that you can very clearly see changes coming before they hit the material world, so it's much easier to trust what you are doing. Today I will speak a little bit about this, so you can incorporate it in your own life.
Trust in your birthright
Trust in your path
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With so much going on in the world, it's been a very busy time for me. Even so, I'd like to write about sensing the threshold today, as I feel a lot of people are noticing signs of transition in their lives. When we speak about transition, we know that this is a journey, a time span, but usually we only receive the peace and gratitude when the transition is completely over and the goal has been reached. However, I find it very important to find that relaxation within a transition. The waves are always moving, so it pays off to feel at peace with that movement.
Start of a transition
Often, people are quite unclear on when a transition has started in their lives. If you are looking for a transition in your love life, did it start when you start looking for a partner, when you were dating, when you fell in love? Most transitions don't have clear start times, but there are phases during the start of a transition that can help you pinpoint what is going on and what transition is happening.
Almost always a transition starts at a Spiritual Level: feelings of dissatisfaction, wanting a new challenge/the next step, missing excitement, feeling less alive and getting signs that you need to make changes. Not everybody is aware of this level, most people will rationalize these feelings and signs away causing the transition to move downwards.
Now the transition will reach the Mind Level as well: we start worrying, thinking or analyzing. We find ourselves with an idea or a situation that becomes stuck in our mind. Like a stone in our shoe, we keep coming back to it. Time to make changes, but again, some people will rationalize these thoughts away.
So if we don't take appropriate steps to transition, it will reach the Emotional Level. Now the feelings of dissatisfaction will grow. We will feel exhausted, upset and irritable. We struggle with meaninglessness, feeling unhappier and out of sorts.Again, some people will rationalize these feelings, on top of the already existing thoughts and signs, away.
Then, it will reach the Physical Level. Almost always people will start getting small health complaints: tiredness, soreness, aches and upsets. If we keep struggling against the tide of transition, the health problems will become worse.
As a Psychic, I keep myself tuned into my Spiritual Level as much as possible. I ask to be a divine tool as a miracle worker/light bringer. I listen to what's needed for myself and others. I often pray and meditate. As such, I have easier transitions in my life and less general upset.
Sensing the threshold
Embracing the transition doesn't mean that we don't struggle a bit. This mostly happens because people want a transition to be over faster (so they can get to the goal) or they don't see any improvements yet (so they want to move faster).
Just like it's darkest before dawn, a transition is often working quietly until the situation has changed completely. When we continue to put in the energy, thoughts, prayers and dedication, we will transition to our next phases. So, if you are impatient, invest in gratitude and dedication.
If you listen quietly though and meditate, you might already sense the threshold to your new level. As such, that's a great way of keeping yourself motivated. As a Psychic, I often get forewarned about big transitions (moving house, marriage etc.) and I will do Year Readings to see when I have thresholds hidden in my year. I highly recommend taking the time to do the same or ordering a Reading.
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A lot of people have experience with enjoying the Flow, that time when you feel strong healthy and vibrant and everything is just flowing like it should. Your focus is happy and in the moment and things just seamlessly fall into place. As a Psychic I don't only work with that type of Flow, but also with different types of energies that I also call flow. Today I'm writing to you how I do that and give you two exercises to try for yourself.
Flow of your life
Just as everybody else I always have projects, wants and needs in my life. I'm typically a planner so I like to see what I would like to do and what my goals are going to be. That allows me to be mindful, review and reflect on where my energy is going and what I'm doing with it. The more in tune I am with myself, the easier it is to be flexible, joyful and redirect what doesn't work for me.
However, I also check up on the flow of how my life is going.
Questions I often ask myself are:
- Am I doing things in the right order?
- Am I getting signals I should change course?
- Am I getting signals I'm overlooking something?
For some people that can mean I suddenly 'choose to drop a subject', while for me there are obvious signals that things aren't right. I like to tell people that if you want pears, you can stand under the pear tree and shake the tree, but any pears that fall down are unripe, so it's better to wait until they are ready to let go.
Often I check the energy of the day, week or month and see what I can best do with it. It's sometimes pretty hard to let go of a project that I care about for a while, but it always turns out for the better. It's important to me that things are the 'right fit' and not just the first option or first chance.
A good example of this was when my husband was getting offers for the sale of his home. Naturally this process is very stressful, but I kept telling him the right person just hadn't showed up yet. He felt very anxious waiting, but in the end we have accepted the offer of the third person interested. It has been a blessing in so many ways, so he is now convinced that this is important.
Meeting the flow of your life is an important way to find yourself in the Flow regularly. It helps you feel what is right for you at the moment, releases you from obligation that don't work and helps you to stay flexible.
Exercise to check the flow of your life
- Make a list of what projects you feel are important
- Rank them in the order you think they should be done
- Ask Spirit/The Universe/God/your intuition to rank them in which order they should flow into your life.
- If you have trouble with the previous step, simple use a random number generator to rank them or write them down on separate cards, shuffle and draw the order
- What in the new order is surprising? Does it bring you any new knowledge or insights?
Flow of your body
Noticing the flow of your body - where are you at ease, where are you keeping tension, where are you looking for sustenance or for relaxation - immediately helps improve your life. A lot of people who do productivity work will try to find out at which times they are most productive and use that knowledge to optimize their schedules. There are also many books on how movement, body posture etc. can help us feel more relaxed, stronger, more motivated etc.
There are many ways to notice and work with the flow of your body and work with the energy you have or even raise it, instead of going against the flow and exhausting yourself. After you noticed what you need for your body, don't hesitate to give it to yourself.
Exercise to feel the flow of your body
- Make sure you aren't disturbed for 5-10 minutes
- Close your eyes
- Breath in and out in a relaxed fashion, slowing down your breath
- Give each of your body parts attention, starting from the feet up towards the top of your head
- Listen to each part and notice if it holds tension
- Feel how tired/thirsty/hungry your body is
- Feel the mood of your body, is it angry, relaxed, happy, joyful or....
- Do you notice any blockages?
- If you have a gift to give your body - what would it be?
- Slowly open your eyes
- Enjoy a bit of water, tea or something else to drink
A small list of what you might need could be:
- Give yourself enough sleep
- Give yourself enough food
- Give yourself enough relaxation
- Do some yoga
- Take a walk
- Do some other exercise
- Take a break
- Take a holiday
My favorite ways of body flow are getting regular massages (keeps me very well connected and grounded in where I hold tension) and jumping on my trampoline whenever I get annoyed with paperwork.
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One of the things that happen the most when you live a vibrant and happy life is that you are starting to notice that you will be called to more and more situations and that most of them might become 'more difficult' with time. Listening to your intuition will become easier, but the situations it wants to resolve will have greater stakes, but also greater rewards. Change is one of the hardest things for all humans, as we tend to like things to stay predictable.
Even so, here are some interesting examples in my business life that you can see have increased stakes.
Renting my first space
When I just started out, I mostly worked at people's homes and was still wondering how I was going to start up my business. I naturally spoke to other friends about starting my business, especially one that had rented a space for years already. I also attended a networking meeting where I met his landlord. I actually wrote an e-mail to him to see if anything was available.
I didn't hear back, so that was a bit of a bummer. But a few weeks later my intuition told me that I should send an e-mail again. I did and this time two spaces where available so I even had the choice to see what would work for me. The stakes weren't that high, because I could rent in a building that was going to be torn down so I could do month-by-month rent which is unusual for businesses. The rent also wasn't that high because of that. I told myself I'd try for 3 months, instead of going on holiday (around the same amount of money as 3 months rent) and if it didn't work out, I'd quit. So that was perfect for starting up.
Moving to my second space
Of course the building was eventually torn down, so just before we were all told we had to vacate. Most of us wanted to stay together and our landlord had acquired another building, but that one was significantly smaller. So, it was all fate if you could fit or not. Our landlord first made spaces available to larger companies and those that rented from him longer.
A lot of people told me to find another space, especially when the date to move out was approaching. My intuition however told me that I would find space in the new building. The stakes weren't that high, because I told myself that worst case scenario I'd work from home to make it work. I would then go find another space to rent for my business. However, imagine my delight when a space became available for me just a week before we were supposed to move out.
TV program
Of course being on TV would be great for me, but it was also quite a hefty business expense. I watched segments of the show, I thought about possibilities and I wondered what it would do for my business. It was quite interesting that my intuition told me to go for it. It was contrary to a lot of advice I was getting and the stakes were definitely higher, as it was a lot of money.
I did decide to listen and I am happy to report I did recoup that money and then some. I really do believe it was important for my business.
I my personal life I also notice that stakes have gone up and I'm able to make decisions that carry more risk if they 'go wrong' then I would have done a few years ago. However, the rewards also have been a lot bigger, which is wonderful. I'm eager to find out what joys are awaiting me for the future.
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It's been a while since I wrote about the joys of Psychic Life. Not because I haven't had any joy, but mostly because I've been focusing on my other article series. So now I'm back to talk a little bit more about my life and what happens differently because I'm a Psychic Healer. Today I want to talk about Fantasizing and how I do it.
Positive Fantasizing
A lot of people do 'negative fantasizing', also called 'worrying'. When we go out and distract our mind with all kinds of negative stories that we create. Often, our worries never come true, yet we still engage in the same behavior.
Positive Fantasizing can be anything from daydreaming about the kind of life, love or job you want to be to brainstorming and making lists on what goals you want to achieve. For some of us, that can be an escape that comes to nothing, but if you work with energy, especially spiritually, you can create from your own desires.
Visualization
You can take your ideas and visualize them. Research has shown that athletes that visualize their exercises will create benefits for their 'real' play. The power of the mind is so interesting and I hope we will see more research in the coming years. So, as a Psychic, I often visualize what I want to create coming towards me or appearing in my life.
Sometimes I make a movie, where I see myself doing the things I want to do, hearing, feeling and smelling them. Sometimes I visualize an object that I want to have and how it feels to use that in my daily life.
Affirmations
Once I have something I really want to achieve or just a goal I want to work on and I find myself fantasizing about it a lot, I will often make an affirmation for myself to repeat and enjoy. Sometimes I spend some time using hand lettering to create a work of art with an affirmation. Creative work helps me reaffirm easily and happily. I tend to sing them too sometimes.
Law of Attraction
I don't consciously work with the law of attraction much, although I know a lot of people who use it through affirmations and visualization, so I guess they might say I use it a lot. Most of my law of attraction work is unconsciously done. I hear myself say and talk about what I want and I trust it will appear.
This has gotten me loads of discounts and other beautiful situations in which things worked out just like I would have wanted it/for the best.
Listening
Last, but certainly not least, is that I listen to what I can do to start creating my positive and better life. Sometimes I drawn towards new situations and people, sometimes I'm told to do some more work on areas of my life and sometimes I'm just told to relax and enjoy.
So, today, set some time aside to think or feel what you really want to create in your life. Fantasize about your 'better life', about who would be in it, what would be happening in it etc.. Then go out and try one of the things I do to create it for yourself.
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The other day I received a phone call asking me if I also do work finding lost items. The short answer is "no", the long answer follows in this article.
My experiences using Psychic Means to find lost items for myself
Like every other person I sometimes lose my keys or other valuable items and like any other person I can get anxious about it. Anxiety doesn't help any type of Psychic work, because it clouds the connection. You can get unclear answers or even answers that make no sense or are inaccurate. I never do Psychic Work when I'm in an anxious state willingly, but when you really need to leave and you can't find your car keys anywhere, you'd be willing to try anything too.
I've used a pendulum to try to pin point where I left lost items in my house and have had mixed successes. Sometimes it would help me to quickly pinpoint the room and I could find the item fast. Sometimes I'd walk around the house with it swinging wildly, so interpreting results was impossible.
I have done Readings as well when an item was lost for a long while, but this also gave mixed results. Sometimes it would give me a clear idea where to look, sometimes it just made me second guess myself endlessly.
My experiences using Psychic Means to find lost items for others
While I was frequenting a Tarot Forum, often people would ask others to draw a Card for a lost item. Usually all the cards drawn (sometimes up to 20) were all different, because Readers interpret their Cards in slightly different ways. Advice on where the item would be located would vary wildly.
I almost never used Cards however to do find something for others, instead I would use Remote Viewing. Remote Viewing is a Psychic technique that focuses on trying to get a picture of a place or item. So I would try to focus on the lost item and then note my impressions. Often this would give good, but not always clear results on where the item was.
For example, I was once asked to find a photo camera and I described a room where I could see a low type of cabinet, plus what I thought was a bunch of items on top, with a mirror present. So I thought the camera was in the bathroom, under the laundry, where it was actually found. However, when searching for another item for the same person, I didn't get much impressions at all so couldn't pinpoint a specific room or place. Sometimes impressions are vague or didn't seem to be similar enough to pin point a location.
Conclusions
Since I work primarily with energy, items have less energy then people, so it's harder for me to tune into them. Often, people are agitated when they lose something, so then I'm also stuck with a huge energy field near me which is transmitting information, while trying to find something else. It's like trying to focus on a candle light outside while the sun is shining.
Because of this, I've had much more success finding items when I wasn't near the person searching for them, so Remote Viewing works well for me, even when I don't know the house or the environment. Even then though, I can't promise the accuracy that I would want to offer this as a paid service. So, I won't use my abilities to find your items for you.
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Today I'm going to talk about another quite nice (but slightly silly) joy of Psychic Life. I haven't thought about it for a while, but since it happened again recently, it seemed like the perfect moment to write a blog post about it.
Subconscious Psychic Flash
I'm used to knowing things in advance, knowing things that come true, getting feelings and basically being aware of what being Psychic means in my life. Some of it has been instinctual, but I had to work on refining my flashes by using my Psychic muscles. I still notice my psychic abilities evolving and I work with them as much as I can. However, I am sometimes unaware of a psychic knowing and what happens then is what I call a subconscious Psychic Flash.
Here I am, just living my life, talking to people, doing things and not even noticing anything relatively psychic going on. And then, out of the blue, something happens that puts something I did or said into a completely different light. One of my friends complained about that happening by saying: "I never know if I should have paid more attention to what you were saying or if this was just a strange coincidence again".
Example of a Subconscious Psychic Flash
A week ago or so my partner told me that he had chosen to switch mobile phone provider, because his phone plan was ending. He also pays for internet service at home from the same provider he wanted to switch his mobile plan too. I told him that he should call to ask if they have any extra discounts for existing customers. He did it, but they told him that they didn't. He didn't question my request.
Looking back it's kind of an odd request though, because usually those services are complete separate and I don't know any provider that has discounts for such radical different services. They have discounts if you want to combine certain services (home phone/home internet/home TV) or if you are at the end of your plan and they want to put you down for a new one (mobile phone). I didn't think it was a psychic knowing though, because I didn't register the feeling I always have with it.
So, now, a week later we both receive an e-mail from that provider (I have home internet from them as well) and they are offering to give a significant discount if you take out a mobile plan with them as well. I had to chuckle when I saw it. He called me to let me know he got that e-mail and asked me if I had sensed something. Well, apparently, I did, but not consciously.
So did you ever get a subconscious psychic flash? Let me know in the comments or on the Facebook Fan Page!
As I wrote in the Article in March, Psychic Decision Making, being Psychic means that I surely have an edge in making decisions. However, one of the other things I noted when I speak to my friends, to colleagues, to clients or to family members is that being Psychic makes me very attuned to possibilities and thus to what I call Powerful Thought.
Many people understand how our thoughts can shape the world around us. How, if you complain loudly in a restaurant about a waiters in general, most likely your service will suffer if the waiter hears you or if you claim that all (wo)men are shit, decent people don't really want to associate with you. A negative outlook colors everything around you, because people respond negatively to negativity.
On top of that, a negative outlook or negative thoughts can color even good experiences with negativity. I have heard people complain about a flat tire, but fail to mention somebody came up to help them. Often, there are positive sides that we can find in any experience, if we look hard enough. Without my illness, my company wouldn't exist. As a Psychic I can see the good more easily as it presents itself in powerful positive energy.
When I describe these two instances of negative thoughts and not being aware of what it does to your life and your experience, many people understand immediately. However, becoming aware of what you are thinking and taking steps to focus on positivity, joyfulness and awareness is a lot of work. In many meditative teachings the focus is upon letting negativity slide away and harnessing your thoughts. I heartily agree and tell people that meditation or reflection is really worth it. A gratitude journal can also help to boost positivity.
While your thoughts shape your now, they also shape your future. If we think that something isn't possible to achieve we won't strive for it. Whether it's a teacher that tells you you can't make it or a doctor that says you will never be healed, as soon as you buy into it, this becomes truth. I have seen many miracles in my life, especially after working as a Psychic Healer. It's easier for me to believe in the so-called 'impossible', because many people find my work to be impossible anyway.
So, harnessing your thoughts and striving for what's right is what I call Powerful Thought. To see yourself as a co-creator of your destiny. To believe that you are cherished and loved and everything that's good will come your way. I do feel that it's easier for me then for others due to being Psychic.
As such I have seen many wonderful positive things happen to me and always hear certain people exclaim that I am lucky. A positive attitude makes for a positive experience.
Here I am again with stories on how being Psychic can have some great benefits, although this particular one sometimes makes my partner scratch his head or want to tear his hairs out!
Decisions: Normal Style
Well, most people make choices based on their ideas about situations, information they gather and sometimes things they talk over with their friends. So, if you are for example planning on buying a car, you will probably check online for cars, test drive a few and then decide which one you like best.
Decisions: Psychic Style
For important decisions I usually take the time to reflect and listen. Often I get told what is going to happen and what I need to do. Sometimes I get less guidance then I would like and then choose to check in during the process.
The hardest decisions are those that seem to have no basis in the material world yet. One of my famous decisions was to bank on the fact that there would be a space for me in the current building that I work. It stayed unclear for many months, as we went from 6 floors to 3 and some people chose not to wait for confirmation, but to find other spaces. I was urged to find a place for myself by many people as that was the smart thing to do. It was difficult for me to keep standing by what I felt was right, but it worked out perfectly.
Solve your difficult Decision Psychic Style
So what happens if you solve your difficult decision Psychic Style? Some Psychics will tell you what will happen, so you can change your decision accordingly. Many people would have wished to know the future when they bought a house (too small for a family and meeting a spouse a year later), a car (broken down with problems) or started a relationship (turned abusive). So it pays off to know the future!
Most of the time I will look at both sides of a decision for a client. I will tell you what both will bring you and you are free to do what you want. Sometimes neither path is good for you and I will tell you what will happen. Usually this is met with complete disbelief, because people can't see it happen in the real world. No signs pointing towards what I am saying. Notable examples include:
1) Neither car was the car to buy. I predicted that the website of the brand would show a car within budget, with the extra's needed (cruise control + parking sensors) that weekend. Was met with disbelief. Car showed up on Sunday afternoon and was bought.
2) Job prospects. I predicted the client would start working with teenagers/children and that she could finish her degree in something else, but it wouldn't bring her what she needed. Met with disbelief, client didn't have any papers/certifications. Hardly a year later client told me that she is indeed working with teenagers/children.
3) Marriage. Client was in the middle of divorce proceedings, with the spouse already out of the house. Predicted that they would get back together. Met with disbelief as client was told repeatedly that the marriage wouldn't work anymore by the spouse. Within 3 months they were rebuilding their marriage and they have been happily married ever since.
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We all have those little disasters in life: your car suddenly stops working, your fridge dies or your laptop just won't start. For most people, it feels like there has been no warning at all! It usually means that people lose files, urgently need help or need to buy a new appliance on the fly. Often this is very stressful.
However, when living the Psychic Life, you do get a warning and that usually means you live a relaxed life. Most of my warnings go in the following categories:
Sudden urge to shop:
Usually when something at the end of life cycle I get the sudden urge to shop. I find myself looking at washing machines or shoes, even though they weren't on my "to-buy"-list at all. This usually happens around 3-4 months in advance, so I might have a good idea of what I want before I actually need to replace something.
Direct Psychic Flash
Sometimes I see myself buying something new and/or have the feeling I have to be in a certain shop or I see a new something in my future. I then know it has to be replaced urgently and I usually make sure it gets replaced fast!
There are many examples that I could tell you about, but most telling is that I've almost never had to replace something when it was already broken. I've had some items 12 years or more before I had the feeling I needed to replace them and they weren't necessarily at the end of their lives according to their manufacturers.
Psychic Life Moving
Another beautiful example of this type of being in tune with life is when I decided December 2017 that I wanted to refurnish the practice in Summer 2018. I felt that after 10 years it was time to buy some new furniture and decide on maybe some new curtains and even redo the floor and paint maybe one of the walls. I'd already looked for some things that I liked when March 2018 I noticed that the neighbors opposite the hallway had movers going in and out. They were moving out!
Their space had a lot of things that were high on my wish list:
- A beautiful wooden floor
- A wall already painted in a color I liked
- Beautiful natural light due to roof windows/skylights while maintaining the privacy I craved.
While having your intuition tell you these kind of things doesn't seem very flashy compared to predictions concerning your love life, the lottery or your career, it sure makes for a pleasant life!
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