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We all need the Sacred Feminine in our lives. Whether it's the Earth Mother, who nurtures us all, no questions asked and no judgement, or one of the three Female energies of Maiden, Mother, Crone, the sacred feminine is necessary and vital for our well being.

She has many faces in her energy, so no matter what background, you have experienced her energy. You might know this energy as Maria Energy or Quan Yin. You can check out the Sacred Masculinity blog post or Sacred Masculinity Manifestation on YouTube if you want to balance both sides.

Dear people,

I've written before about unhealthy family patterns and also how to examine those patterns to and about why True Unity helps heal people you love while you where the only one in the session. Today I'm writing about ancestral wisdom and listening to what kind of gifts have been flowing through you from your family members. A lot of us forget that healing isn't only about what's broken, but also about truly receiving what's good. 

Family Talents you don't seem to have

You might have noticed certain talents in the family you were born in. A lot of people feel those are genetic: so people who are athletic get athletic children for example. However, we also know that nurture counts: often athletic people encourage their children to be athletic. Much of what we receive from our families is based on behavior that is taught. 

If a specific family talent seems unexpressed in you, it can make you feel like an outsider in your family or a failure. Some people find they become a family scapegoat, because they don't conform or start feeling pride in being different. If it's genuine and authentic, that's fine. But if it's a defense mechanism or trauma, then it is worth it to heal it.

Taking some time to sit with those feelings is a good way to heal them, find the core problem and help yourself express family talents. You can do that for example with my video Breaking Free of Image Issues to reach a state of authenticity or do some inner reflection.

Once this wound is healed, you might find that while you never excelled at a team sport, your body is in a great condition or you might have just expressed it through a solitary sport. Sometimes people start feeling attracted towards a family talent after healing and find out they are talented in that way as well, they just never tried it before. 

Family Gifts that you would like to receive

You might have a family member that has a trait that you really admire. Your aunt's dedication or your grandfathers willpower. If you take the time, you might see those traits expressed in other family members as well. They might even been acknowledged by saying: "He's just like grandad" or "The apple didn't fall far from the tree with that one". 

A simple way to open up to that gift is imaging Heaven/Spirit/God/The Universe giving that gift to your family members and include yourself in it. Imagine gifts of confidence, joy, abundance, etc. filling up your whole family tree, including members who married in and even unborn children. This powerful exercise will allow everybody to reach new levels of Family Gifts. 

You can also imagine you sharing your gifts with your family, so that those can be shared around and returned at even higher levels to you. When we share our gifts, we grow. Nobody is left behind when it comes with family gifts, but for some it might take longer to express them, if they have negative stories, beliefs or other blockages. 

Doing this exercise a few times will allow you to see that it works and you will notice yourself acting more in tune with the quality you were hoping to receive. If you notice you have big blockages keeping you from those gifts, feel free to contact me for an intake to unlock your potential. 

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I recently had an interesting question: "how we know we are healed?" It's not that easy to answer in just a few sentences, so I have decided to write a blog post about it. A healing path is very personal, with obstacles and goals along the way, so how do we know it has ended?

Onion model of healing

I strongly believe that we all continue to grow and learn, so that means we also continue to heal throughout life. It's like we are an onion, peeling back layer after layer, until we reach our own core, who we are meant to be. Our soul is like a diamond and we keep on creating more and more shiny facets. 

As such, we never truly reach the end of healing so the answer to the question would be: You are never healed, but always healing. It's true in a way, but also a very unsatisfying answer. 

However, understanding this model means you understand that sometimes we think we are healed, but yet, another layer comes up. That doesn't mean you weren't healed before, but it does mean a new level of health is available to you. 

For example: if you healed childhood trauma, new pain may show up when you become a parent yourself. Suddenly, some parts of you that you never were able to see as harmed, show up to be healed and you can reach a new level of healing. In between becoming a parent and healing the trauma however, you probably felt completely healed and free.

Healing the level you are at

So I usually tell people I help heal a level of their lives, which allows them to be happy and grow again (instead of being stuck in pain, trauma or a rut), but it doesn't guarantee that you never face a new level of healing. So it's very normal for me to have clients who come back to heal new levels or areas of their lives.

So how do you know that the level you were at is healed and you are free and clear moving into a new level? 

For me personally, I check for the following things:

• Frequency: If the problem was occurring frequently, is it now hardly ever there or even non-existent?
• Impact: If the problem had negative consequences, how have those consequences changed? Does it have negative consequences at all or are you now neutral about it?
  
• Capability: Can you now handle the problem easily and without pain?
  
• Growth: Do you notice you are handling the problem differently?
• Next step: Did you get new opportunities and/or results showing you that you have moved on from this level?

For example, if you had trauma with a family member, being able to be around them and dealing in a positive way with their behavior, would count as healed. If you are however still experiencing anxiety, pain, hurt or guilt, that means you haven't healed it at that level.  

If you have had a pattern of bad partnerships, being healed would count if you no longer carry negativity from your ex-partners, but it certainly would be clear healing if you build a healthy partnership with a new partner (next step healing). That doesn't mean you never have any fights, but you definitely can see the difference between previous relationships and your new one.

I would of course prefer to help people reach their next level in one session, but sometimes that's too big a leap for people to comfortably take. Healing must be done at the correct pace, else it will cause harm or stall. Too fast means people will usually block themselves, too slow and we lose hope and get stuck in detours. So for true healing, it's vital to know where the problem lies and to solve that. After that, the energy will just do it's work.

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