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Dear People,

I haven't written much about the services I offer, so sometimes clients that find me through one of the services I offer are surprised what other things I do. For example clients that find me for Healings are surprised I also offer B2B Readings or that you can hire me for private events. You can find all my current services on my website, but I do receive a lot of clients by word of mouth, which usually highlights one service above the others. So this year I'm going to write some about my lesser known services. Today, I'm going to write about my coaching program! 

Why do I offer a coaching program

I have spoken before about the differences between my work and coaching, so while I do call it a coaching program, I do use my gifts. My coaching program consists of Healing/Reading sessions, short Healing Boost, support by phone or email and spiritual exercises.

Clients sometimes ask to work on several things, have several area's in their lives they want to improve or have multiple goals. That makes it hard to choose a single focus for a True Unity Healing. Sometimes clients are looking for direction and healing, so then it's difficult to choose between doing a True Unity Healing or a Psychic Reading. 

For those clients, I started a coaching program, so I can offer longer term support and create the best results. 

When to choose the program

When we are discussing what you want during a free intake, it often becomes clear that the program is also a viable option. By choosing my coaching program, clients receive support for the next 3,6 or 12 months and a mix of sessions and spiritual exercises. To give you a better idea of what the program might look like let me give you several examples.

A client who wants to know more about their romantic life (Reading), but at the same time also knows they need to work on some old relationship baggage (Healing). During a set time we can schedule Healings when old wounds get triggered, but also Readings when potential dates turn into more (or not). They also receive support by email or phone, so they can ask me short questions or discuss their experiences.  This full package ensures they feel supported and get what they need during their journey towards a healthy happy romantic relationship.

A client is starting a business, but while doing so, they have questions about where to best spend their time and energy (Reading), but at the same time, meeting potential clients brings out some personal blockages around receiving, self value and confidence (Healing). By starting a business coaching program, they can get all the support they need and regular checkups help keep them accountable.

A client is on a journey towards living a more spiritually aware life. They have questions about where or what they are being guided towards (Reading), but also want help when they are being challenged to step up (Healing) or when old thought patterns cause trouble (Healing). The program also gives them spiritual exercises to help develop their own intuitive gifts.

A client has several things they want to work on: love, career and some family obligations. By taking the coaching program instead of sessions, they can adjust their sessions to focus on what is most important at that time. Sometimes that means they have a Healing and other times a Reading is a better fit. Spiritual exercises help balance their several goals over a longer period of time.

How do you book my coaching program?

I have a free intake with you where we discuss what your program would look like. Usually we first discuss if you want to have a short program (3 months) or would like longer support. We discuss what your preferred way to connect is (by email or by phone). Then we decide what type of mix of shorter or longer sessions would work best with other obligations and what the goals of the program would be. 

All my coaching programs are tailored specifically to the needs and wants of my clients. That means you will receive a specific price quote based on what we discussed in your intake.

Benefits of my program

There are many benefits to working with the coaching program, but here are some I feel are the best:

1. Reduced cost: since we can skip several intakes a program is almost always cheaper than booking sessions separately
   
2. More accountability
3. More support
4. Specific personal spiritual exercises that you can reuse

Wondering if my coaching program is for you? Ask me for a free intake! 

Pick and choose what works for you and affirm away (I recommend three times a day if you can manage it). 

Dear people,

Recently I've been asked again about relationship compatibility. I bet it doesn't surprise people that often I'm being asked about true love, finding the right partner, relationship potential and dating. Sometimes a Reading is necessary to clarify issues, find new opportunities or look into the future. Sometimes a Healing is necessary to remove past relationship baggage and create a flow for the right romantic partner. While I love doing this work, I'd like to write a bit about compatibility today to help you out when you are dating or want to reflect on your relationship.

First Level of Compatibility: who to date

To make somebody interesting enough for us to date, we need to have some compatibility. If we don't connect at all with somebody, we can do a pity date, but it's not going to end up being a loving mutual beneficial relationship. 

So, we should date people with whom we have:

• Physical Compatibility - we find them attractive, we have some spark, we like what we see/feel etc.
• Emotional Compatibility - we feel a heart connection, we feel understood, engaged and like we can trust them
• Mental Compatibility - we have a mind connection - we can have great conversations together, our talks are engaging etc. 
• Spiritual Compatibility - we intuitively know that there is something there to discover or we just know something is right for us.

Not everybody will rate these compatibilities at the same level. Some people really want to feel a spiritual connection, while others will not date somebody where they feel no physical attraction. Only you know what matters to you and how you deal with things not being as compatible as you'd like. I know some people who only feel physically attracted when their minds or hearts are engaged. So they will date people without feeling that initial physical spark, knowing it will likely come in time. 

If you date people you have no connection with on any level, expect to have disappointing dates. The clearer you are on what works for you, the easiest it will be for everybody. While it can be challenging to turn down somebody, wasting their time and energy on hopeless dates that go nowhere is not kindness, but cowardice.

So you are dating, feel some spark, are a bit engaged, and you are hoping to grow into a deeper relationship. This is where I always tell people: having a long relationship is simple: simply take whatever the other person gives you and fulfill the wants/needs/desires of your partner. You won't have a happy relationship, but you'll have a long one. Because you will not leave, based on  your own wants/needs/desires and your partner won't either.

If you want to grow a happy relationship, that is fulfilling and will be sustainable, you need to invest the time. You need to start figuring out what each others goals and values are and how compatible those are. While I wish there was a short cut into finding out true love on the first date  - there simply isn't. We only know how well we fit together, how trustworthy somebody is and how we feel, when we spend time together and experience what a relationship is like. 

Common goals and the resulting dealbreakers all have to do with what our current life is like and what we want for our future. Kids for example are a common dealbreaker, because you can't have half a kid and you do need to know if you want to them or not. This might not be that urgent when you are in your 20s, but later on it will. Other goals have to do with our families: how much contact do we have, our work: how much time do we spend in our career, our finances: how do we like to spend and our way of life. 

Remember though: people lie about their goals. nobody is going to say: "I want to be a couch potato every weekend", so people tend to say:"it's really important for me to have a healthy body and to exercise and take care of myself". Sometimes this about wanting to look better to a prospective partner (kind of like we'd do in job interviews) and sometimes it's that we think our goals are a certain way but it actually isn't or isn't anymore.